Thank you for lying, cheating, and saying that you would stay knowing that you would leave. Here’s to happier days ahead xoxo. We have to be in different places and moments and honestly, I accept it, but I still can’t find the strength to overcome it. YOU certainly don’t need it. And he has to lie his head down every night on his pillow. A Letter To My Ex Girlfriend: I Am Sorry For Hurting You. Given Below are a few Break up letter samples for a clearer Idea. The thought of you makes me smile, and I know our love was real, so I'm writing you this letter so that you know how I truly feel. Oh wait you have. The ex, family, my old friend who I thought was my friend, the guy who stole $1000 from me, former bosses, landlords, etc. It hurt that I could never forgive them or forget what they did. “A breakup should never come out of the blue. For you know you, and what you know…is real! You didn’t feel a thing. Yes, you hurt me, more than once and so incredibly deep I thought I would die. We do the best we can with what we know and how we feel. He kissed you with the same surreal brilliance that captivated you so deeply. Honey it’s going on close to 35 years for me and I’m just starting to gain it back. Even when caught in a lie a female will never admit it. Thank you for sharing your healing!! You flit around on your tippy toes half convinced that you actually are a fairy. You did. Does what I share with you move you in any way shape or form? Your email address will not be published. So to all the ladies afraid to leave or struggling with the should I or shouldn’t I……… Listen to your gut. Forgiveness is not easy and it’s not for the weak..but it’s so important for our healing. Bet this was freeing for you. We have to be in different places and at different times and honestly, I accept it, but I still can’t find the strength to overcome it. Made with love for amazing people like you. It blows my mind. Wished horrible things on you. Yeah, males also do that but not to the extent females do. You have to want this freedom more than the pain you are holding onto. We will often say to ourselves “oh if only I had just done this differently” or “if only I wasn’t so stupid none of this would have happened”. I don't want you to change for me or for anyone else. At some point I will learn to live with memories, although unfortunately I know it will not be today, nor tomorrow. I talk an awful lot about forgiving others. I have cried so many times for you and also laughed because of you, that I look back and I can’t believe that things can end at this moment. Never. Thank you for sharing your story. I wish you could see everything from my point of view and maybe that way, it would be easier for you to forgive me. I say goodbye to your caresses, which gave so much heat to the cold winters of yesteryear….And  I tell you until never, although the memories of your love will remain alive in my mind for all eternity. 1. I will read it to achieve mine!! Mention that the moments he said he loved you for the first time is … It touched me. Awesomeness! This was my doorway into the realm self discovery and awarenes so many other things got fixed from there on too. Actually I found quite a few things. It’s like having a monkey on your back all the damn time.eval(ez_write_tag([[336,280],'amazingmemovement_com-box-3','ezslot_5',171,'0','0'])); Why anyone would want to live like that is beyond me. It is an irony to tell you my heaven, maybe it is a trick of life, so much I told you in life that today, after your death, you are literally. I take each day as it comes and am waiting to let go. Hey Ellann thanx for your comment! Much love for you always! I hv my wife who I guess never loved me n life is like an unending journey. But when you break up with someone, and you're truly over the relationship, it's important to display appropriate boundaries so you don't end up leading your ex on. I hope you do not judge me my heaven, you are the woman of my life, but at this moment you know that I need someone, after our children left to make their life and my next retirement, I no longer saw meaning in life, She has given it back to me. You need to stop beating yourself up, take a moment to forgive yourself and let it go. Powerful. I also believe that when we write ourselves ‘love letters’ if you will, it helps remind us of how amazing we truly are. It’s not my fault if they did what they did. Pity is more what I feel for two of the most selfish, heartless and disrespectful people I will ever meet in my life.. I love you in my life, until never.​​. Barbara, Awe I love your story and your courage Barbara!! I have been longing to send a letter out like this, to all the family members who have hurt me on purpose, and have caused immense pain. Love letters to say goodbye. Very powerful letter. A Very Sad Break up Letter from a girl to her Boyfriend. You leave and with you all the illusions of my life are gone…. Forgiving others doesn’t mean we condone their behaviour. Women can get away with writing these types of things to complain how she was betrayed, hurt, ect. God bless you and keep you strong! Some may say I let him damage me by not forgetting and letting go of what transpired. I have cried so many times for you and I have laughed at you too, that I look back and I can’t believe that things can end right now. What I really want to say is that I'm sorry, I know that you didn't deserve to be hurt like that, and I know that you will find someone who will love you and treat you right, they will make you happy and that person won't hurt you like I did. I will always love them. In some ways, I can understand – I don’t completely blame you. Before making a final decision to end the relationship, you should share your concerns or dissatisfactions, and try to work through them as a team. You really do have to let it go!!! Why did I stop reading after 200-300 words? If you take the “average” female and male. It tears you apart physically, mentially, emotionally it’s just NO GOOD!! You’re right, we all have been screwed. This letter is for you, not them. No one who comes from a good loving place treats people the way you do. I don’t want to hurt you, especially after so many things that we went through together. In my latest YouTube video, I talked an awful lot about forgiveness and letting go of the past. Great post. All Rights Reserved. ? so im asking you for advise…is.it to late to write and if not any ideas on how to begin? Thank you for your comment Ramona and glad you enjoyed the article. Then two months ago I was watching a movie about a woman who was so full of life and was murdered. Now the end of one of the most beautiful and painful stages of my life has come, but I do not regret having lived with you. And you can write a letter if you want. If a man would do the same, even when he was truly betrayed, hurt, lied to he would come off as weak. And start writing everything that is eating at you. We have to take separate paths and if one day we meet again, I hope to look at you with love and that you observe me in the same way; because if we sometimes hurt ourselves, there were more times when we made each other happy. I don’t forgive you because it makes me feel like a good person. (this post contains affiliate links so if you make a purchase I make a small commission-affiliate disclosure). Now I don’t hv problem that she left me n started a new life , but I do hv problem when I imagine her with wrong person. Farewell letter to a great love You are exactly what all my life expects, you are what makes me turn every day in 180 degree turns, and although our love is forbidden, I cannot help loving you. It could be that you chose to be with someone against the advice of your friends and loved ones. I come from a place of peace, love, and forgiveness now. Required fields are marked *. I’d also like to add you are still young enough to enjoy some happiness. Click on the link below to read my very own love letter to me :). Days that would not change for anything in the world, although today I feel like crying and I keep wondering, what happened to us and how did we get to this point? Thank you for sharing your story Pam. Hey Susan thanx for your comment. I say goodbye to you even though my soul hurts … I say goodbye to you with all my pain…. Healing can occur at any time. I shared many moments with you, moments that will remain in my heart forever, even though I know what ours has come here. How To Know Which Angel Cards Are Right For You: A Buyer’s Guide, 15 Deep Healing Quotes For Your Broken Heart and Soul. Starting your life over at 30 is one thing but starting over at 57 years old really sucks!! I am amazed! February 8, 2020. Your email address will not be published. Thank you very much. Save your letter draft and read it twice before sending. All we are asked to do is forgive one another, doesn’t mean we agree with what they done, but forgive them of their awful ways. Honey that was very bold, risk-taking (in some cases, maybe not yours), and needed for you to write that. Loved this letter. This is my thank you for being such a good wife. I loved you with my all but yet you hurt me so bad. Write a forgiveness letter to everyone and anyone who hurt you and still rents space in your head and heart. Write your letter but no need to send it out. I accept it, a part of me would like to do it. At some point I will learn to live with memories, although unfortunately I know it will not be today, nor tomorrow. I will not deny that it hurts, because a part of me is still where you are. I can’t forget her that is for sure . The trick is to not let it keep us down! Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. That’s problem #1. That someone isn’t my someone, but he held the same power over you. A word of caution though. Days, months,  years even and I found something. By forgiving others, we are forgiving. There’s no other way you are going to come to a place of inner peace and self-love until you do this. You are basically healing yourself. I’m trying to reach this point in my life. you’ve said all the things I felt after being in a Narcissistic relationship. How I felt then is very different from how I feel now. You tell me you are hurt because I don’t care anymore. After all, having to say goodbye is also making me suffer; and I thought I would have the strength to leave with my feelings intact. Prayers for all of us who have been through very hurtful things! You made me believe in love, in illusion, in shared dreams, and although I know that our love is not accepted, I cannot help feeling that this is stronger than my love for my family. So we have been discreet, his family does not know, except his mother. Now, I don't think that you had ulterior motives in asking her out. You can check it out here and grab your copy!eval(ez_write_tag([[728,90],'amazingmemovement_com-medrectangle-4','ezslot_7',172,'0','0'])); After you read my letter of forgiveness, you might like this “open letter to myself”. While you’re there, don’t forget to hit the subscribe button too so you don’t miss any of my super awesome vids! Since then I’ve been contimplating on the idea of writing the man (ass) who broke me, stoled a part of my happiness, full spirited loving soul. I don’t have room, time, desire, or energy to think about the hurt. xo Good for you for getting there!! It’s truly a blessing that we found our way back to each other. I’m a better person since I grew and forgave! I miss that time when we wanted to discover together what we could achieve in the future, in which we began to have intense feelings for each other and there seemed to be nothing that could end what we were living. I know this is all apart of the process I must go through to become the person I am meant to be. Whatever happens, I wish you the best of luck and I can only tell you that I will remember you. Felt really glad listening your heart n mind . Everything has ended with love, although my soul hurts, I can no longer be by your side … Giant is my pain, but it would be bigger if we continue with this lie that ruins our lives …. HI Dev I am certainly no therapist but all I can say is you gotta learn to let go of your attachment to her and her happiness and start living your life for you. Click the button below. You have to understand that. Too often we beat ourselves up over things that happened in the past. BetterHelp.com has amazing therapists worth checking out. But time can be the worst enemy of love, when it is not destined to remain. And try to blame me. That he will never know what it is like to love and be loved. n that is the thing I don’t want. its hard. Light a candle if you want or burn some lavender oil. But now my gaurd is up. Without doing that, you never would have that TRUE feeling of release in your body. Got no time for that. Hey, these are my thoughts on what you wrote here. I read about the first 200 – 300 words. 2017 is gonna rock. Oy. eval(ez_write_tag([[250,250],'amazingmemovement_com-narrow-sky-1','ezslot_18',193,'0','0']));eval(ez_write_tag([[250,250],'amazingmemovement_com-narrow-sky-1','ezslot_19',193,'0','1'])); For the longest time, I hated you. Whether the person did one really unforgivable thing or you’re ready to walk away from a pattern of abusive behavior, sometimes cutting ties with your family member is the best thing you can do for your mental health. This div height required for enabling the sticky sidebar. Beyond everything and always together, I love you and miss the love of my life. Tormenting me. And still wonder why I cut them out of my life. Just write it all out. I try to do right by me only to be treated like me and what I need don t matter. It is an irony to tell you my heaven, maybe it is a trick of life, so much I told you in life that today, after your death, you are literally. I send you love for you, not for me. Since you are female, you can get away with expressing these feelings in a letter, makes you look strong but I would very, very, very much argue that if a male expressed the same feelings and wrote a similar letter he would be thought of as weak for doing so. Arows on July 28, 2020: Got no time for that xo Love you back!! Hi iva, your letter is a result of your experience​, nice letter, it is really a worthful one. I’ve just come thru a long and painful divorce from a man who cheated, lied, belittled, ignored and hurt our children, still does to some degree! I hear ya on the no longer putting up with bullshit. This is an open letter to ALL who hurt me, my parents, my best friend, my ex boyfriend, everyone. He finally walked out on me on my birthday no less. xo Better days ahead indeed! Anyway, I want your permission to ask you to marry me, it is clear that first I will have to get used to the idea of ​​certain jokes that I will receive, of the possible disgust of our children and their family, but all that will not matter until I know that You approve it. You left. I would love to send it to my former boss who did me dirty. Love and much peace to you. I want you to know that I have never loved or loved someone as much as you, and will continue to do so beyond death, because now that ours has to end, a part of me dies. After a while, a long while of doing that, I realized it wasn’t hurting you. Kudos. Everything makes you giggle. Better days ahead.. Live and let live. Forgiveness will come one day. Just the mere thought of my life without him would I feel the onset of panic come over me. I lost someone so special and unique, and I don’t know if I’ll ever forgive myself. When we hold on to hurt, anger, pain, and any other toxic emotion, it just eats away at our very soul. I moved out of the house he and I built together with our own hands in June 2017. While trying to get passed that and rediscover me I met and married another man who seems to have picked up where my first husband left off. Thanks for writing yours, because it will help me get started. If anything I have ever shared with you has inspired, motivated, empowered, or enlightened you please consider supporting my work by buying me a coffee!! xoxo. I will befriend someome and then put up a wall and damage that relationship, not intentionally, but then realize it after the fact. And it’s going by so fast. Three of those six stand out strong in my mind. What’s happened is behind us now. Iva Ursano is a retired hairstylist turned badass freelancer, who left behind 52 years of her life in Northern Ontario, Canada for a life of freedom, love and beauty in sunny Guatemala. Again thank you for your letter for it really has given me hope and a place to start my healing process. It has been during this whole time that I’ve truly lost myself. ... but mine was bigger. In this farewell I wish you all the happiness in the world and find the love and happiness you seek and deserve. What’s done is done. But I didn't die. I believed him…but I will have to say I learned alot and will never go down that road again. Now after reading your letter. I really don’t give a crap how you feel today. Thank you kindly for sharing. Your first part in forgiveness should be in recognizing what you did wrong (I know. Please, even if I have to say goodbye, never forget that I have a great affection for you and that I still hope that time makes you remember me in the same way that I will. 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